There are times that there are true reasons to really end a relationship. These days people will find any reason to break up and move on to the next. He doesn’t watch the same TV shows, he is too darn nice,he calls his mother four times a week. I had one girlfriend that stopped talking to a guy because he was texting her “Good morning!” every day. I thought most women would love that right? Had a few friends that stop dating guys because they were too nice. Really bish?
It is so easy to leave your man and get with the next guy. Social media and dating sites have put people in the position to leave a relationship at the drop of a hat because it only takes a click of the mouse to find the next boo thang.
So let’s cut to the chase and get to what is true, blue deal breakers. Reasons to seriously call it quits and get the hell out of dodge!
He Won’t Let You Be You
He doesn’t like the way you wear your hair. If you wear your hair natural, it is too nappy. Relaxer? You trying to be white and hate your African roots. Cut in a fade, you look like a man. He doesn’t like the way you dress, your weight, hates what you watch on TV, and dislikes the music that you listen to. Hell, does he really even like YOU? If wants you to change everything that makes you YOU, then obviously it’s not you that he wants. If you can’t be yourself, then he is not the one for you either. You will never be happy pretending to be someone else.
He doesn’t have a job. Not enrolled in any type of college or technical school. No goals or aspirations in life. He is at the age where he should be in a career or at least ready to walk through the doors and climb up the ladder, but instead he is still trying to figure it out. As a result, you are helping him get by in life. Paying all the bills, being his Uber driver, feeding and clothing him. At a certain point in life a man has to be a man. It is not your responsibility to raise a man. If you find yourself in this situation, tell him to call Tyrone!
He Is Already Taken
Yes he is unhappy. Yes their relationship is really over because he doesn’t sleep in the same bed and they haven’t had sex in months. Yes he just needs a woman to do everything she is not doing. And yes you want to be the woman to do just that. With all that comes with being second best. Your Valentine’s day is February 15th, Christmas is December 26. It just so happens he has to go out of town with his family on your birthday. You spend almost every night in the bed alone. Would he really be worth it?
This one goes hand in hand. These are absolute deal breakers As soon as you see the first signs of physical and mental abuse or drug problems. Run! There is no excuse for a man to put his hands on you. And dealing with drug issues can lead to abusive behaviors. It is best to get out of this one asap.
He likes to play the field. Can’t say no to any woman that is trying to see what he is working with. Women call your phone and tell you what your house looks like. Too many times we forgive cheaters, only to have them continually betray our trust. This is an ultimate deal breaker. And should be a deal breaker the first time.